I’m procrastinating in taking Bug to get an eye check.
CD
has had thick glasses since the beginning of time and I've had perfect
eyes until I… um, got old. Humbly, I admit I have prided myself on having good eyesight and having attractive eyes. When we decided to have kids, we made a deal. CD would give any future children his hair (thick, blond and curly whereas mine is
thin, mousey and straight) and I’d give them my eyes.
Well, Pook came out with straight auburn hair and then got glasses
at age 7. Fail on both our parts. We admitted it and moved on. His hair is pretty awesome anyway and his eyes, although hidden behind glasses, are a lovely pale blue. I remember looking down at him when I fed him as an infant and noticing that every eyelash was a different color. I was sad when he needed glasses. But, he looks like his daddy in glasses and well, I like the way his dad looks, so its all ok. Maybe he'll try contacts someday.
Bug got my boring hair but hasn’t
YET needed glasses. Recently he mentioned that it was hard to see the writing at the front of the classroom. So now I’m worried that he might need them. But I
don’t want to put those darling baby blues behind glass. And I haven’t
made the appointment I think he needs. If he gets glasses then we’ll have both failed on both hair and eyes with both children and I’ll be so
disappointed!
The upside would be that he'd be able to, you know, see.
Of course the real upside is that you have awesome children! The gene pool has been improved, if not with vision.
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